The Wedding Ring,
traditionally a plain, gold band, is the oldest surviving symbol
of marriage. The circle represents eternity and never-ending love,
while the gold represents purity of intent. It is placed on the
fourth finger of the left-hand as it was believed that a vein called
the Vena Amoris ran straight from it to the heart.
The throwing of the Garter by the
groom to unmarried men and the Bouquet by the bride to unmarried
girls is believed to bring good luck and marriage to whomever they
are caught by.
The conventional white Dress is said
to be a sign of purity and high virtues. Green signifies youth,
hope and happiness. Red denotes vigour, courage and passion, while
violet symbolises dignity, pride and high ideals.
Something old, something new, something
borrowed, something blue
Something Old could be a piece of jewellery or something from a
happily married woman as a blessing of matrimonial bliss. This represents
the married woman’s links with her family and her past.
Something New depicts the new life that the bride is starting –
usually this is her dress or shoes.
Something Borrowed is to remind the bride of the need to rely on
others for help. This is normally gold, representing the sun, the
source of life.
Something Blue, usually the garter, denotes faithfulness and is
a compliment to the moon, protector of women.
Honeymoon – about 4000 years
ago in Babylon it was the accepted practise that after a wedding
the bride’s father would supply his new son-in-law with all
the beer he could drink for a month. The beer, called mead, was
a honey-based beer, and because the Babylonian calendar was lunar-based
the period became known as the honey month, or as we know it today,
the honeymoon.
Ringing of the wedding bells after
the ceremony. This was meant to scare away the evil spirits that
could destroy the couple's happiness.
The Bridal Bouquets. In ancient times,
the first bridal bouquets were made of not only flowers but special
herbs and spices. This was done to ward off the evil spirits. They
also used particular herbs that symbolized fertility.
Throwing rice (or birdseed) as the
couple departs. The birdseed was thrown to promote fertility.
The Receiving Line - In ancient times,
it was believed that the bride and groom were blessed. Those who
touched them would have good luck.
Bride and groom cut the cake and
then feed each other. Feeding each other the cake symbolizes how
the couple will "feed" and nourish the relationship for
the rest of their lives. Now, this was meant as loving and caring
symbol for each other. As for the "smearing" and pushing
cake into each other's faces? No one knows how that started... Hopefully,
that's a "tradition" that will die out!
Giving almonds at a wedding symbolises
the bitter and sweet aspect of married life. The five almonds represent
Love, Happiness, Loyalty, Prosperity and Virility.
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